Tuesday, Dec 17

Scripture: John 16:21 (NIV) – “A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world.”

Message: This Advent, I carry with me the fresh memory of a miracle – being present at the birth of my fourth grandchild, Walker John Madden. My youngest daughter, Ali, and her husband, Tyler, were preparing for the arrival of their first child. It was a sacred moment – a pause in time where heaven felt just a little closer to earth.

Watching your child endure the pain of labor is one of the hardest things as a parent. You want to take away every contraction, every ache, every fear. But you know, just beyond the pain, there is joy. There is life. There is promise.

Tyler, my son-in-law, was a rock. I already loved him deeply, but seeing the tenderness, strength, and care he gave Ali during those hours in the delivery room deepened my love and admiration for him. We were a team – encouraging, supporting, and praying as we witnessed the incredible strength of this young mother. And when Walker finally arrived, all nine pounds of him, joy filled the room in a way only new life can bring.

The first week home was a bit overwhelming for Ali and Tyler – as it is for every new parent – but in no time, they found their rhythm. I am so proud of them. So in awe of the way love grew even bigger in their little home.

This experience reminded me of Advent – the waiting, the labor, the longing for light to break through darkness. Just like Mary, who labored not only in body but in trust and faith, we too are called to wait with hope. So that we can endure with love, and believe that joy is coming.

And when it does – whether in the cries of a newborn or the quiet peace of Christ’s presence - no one can take that joy from us.

Prayer: Lord, as we wait during this Advent season, help us hold onto hope even when the wait feels long and painful. Let us trust that Your joy is coming – deep, lasting, and eternal. Thank You for the beauty of new life, and for the reminder that love is always being born. Amen.

Kitty Kovic