Scriptures:
Proverbs 17:9 (NLT) – “Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but
dwelling on it separates close friends.”
Matthew 18:21-22 (NIV) – “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord,
how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against
me? Up to seven times?’ Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven
times, but seventy-seven times.’”
Matthew 6:14 (NIV) – “For if you forgive other people when they sin
against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
Colossians 3:13 (NIV) – “Bear with each other and forgive one
another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as
the Lord forgave you.”
Message:
Over my life I've had difficulty in forgiving others. It wasn't
until I learned that the only way to release yourself from the
burden that accompanies carrying a grudge is by loosening its grip
and letting it go; this also releases your anger. You can only do
this through forgiving.
This is a principle that I don't think we really understand until we
actually put it into practice and we have felt the burden lifting
from our shoulders. I've seen grudges tear families and friendships
apart and, more often than not, for reasons that are not really
important; at least not when compared to the larger more important
things that we lose when we cannot forgive.
Prayer:
Dear Jesus, please help strengthen me and teach me how to throw my
grudges off of my heart and forgive those whom I hold ill-will
towards. Teach me how to avoid grudges coming between me and my
family, my friends and my brothers and sisters in Christ by
willingly and intentionally offering forgiveness. Strengthen me
with Your Holy Spirit, so that I may practice Your teachings by
leading through example. Amen.
Steve Marsee
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