Scriptures:
2 Timothy 3:16
(NIV) – “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching,
rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,”
2 Peter 1:21
(NIV) – “For prophesy never had its origin in the will of man, but
men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.”
Matthew
22:31-32 (NIV) – “‘But about the resurrection of the dead – have
you not read what God said to you, “I am the God of Abraham, the God
of Isaac, and the God of Jacob”? He is not the God of the dead but
of the living.’”
Message:
The question from Jesus in Matthew 22:31 implies that God speaks to
us directly through Scripture and in Scripture.
Did you ever visit the Bible based theme park, “The Holy Land”, in
Orlando? Did you go to the Scriptorium for the unique opportunity
to explore the history of the Bible and its ancient manuscripts?
The interactive experiences and stories of all that happened to
bring the Bible to fruition through the centuries changed my life
forever, and established a permanent appreciation for me every time
I sit to read it. I am so grateful. It overwhelms me when I think
of all that transpired throughout history so that I can have my
Bible with me to read and meditate on God’s Word.
Do you treasure your Bible as God’s own words, revealing His truth?
As living water from God with transformative power? God’s Bible
narrative provides a mirror which reflects the glory of Christ to
us. We behold Christ’s glory through reading and meditating on the
Bible.
Prayer:
Transform us, Heavenly Father, as we read our Bibles this Lenten
season. Open our hearts, minds, and souls to Your glory, so that we
may reflect You and Your love in our lives. Thank You for a renewed
love of Your Word. Thank You for a renewed passion for a deeper,
covenantal intimacy with You. In Jesus’ Name. Amen
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
Psalm 34:8 (KJV) – “O taste and see that the Lord is good;”
Genesis 1:4 (KJV)
– “And
God saw the light, that it was good; and God divided the light from
the darkness.”
Psalm 31:19
(NRSV) –
“O how abundant
is your goodness.”
Exodus 33:18-19a
(NIV) – “Then Moses said, ‘Now show me your glory.’ And the Lord
said, ‘I will cause all my goodness to pass in front of you,’”
Message:
Last Fall, Skip and I were driving back to Orlando from visiting
Grant, Carrie, Willow, Sage, and their labradoodle, Luna. Our visit
was such a contrast to the harshness and cruelty in our world.
As reported in
the news, the media motto today seems to be: “If it bleeds, it
leads!”
I was overcome
by a joyous feeling and blurted out to Skip, “We just had a four-day
experience of Goodness!" I can’t remember last when I used
that word, yet it was the perfect word description!
Divine Goodness
is sweetness, friendliness, benevolence, and generosity. It came to
us through joy, laughter, food, granddaughters, friends, babies,
puppies, and flowers! What a bountiful four days of God’s Goodness. The Peace is undeniable.
The Goodness of
God makes us humble, patient, trusting, and thankful. When we
meditate on the overwhelming Goodness of God, it stirs us to worship
Him.
Family Activity:
As a
family, come up with a list of different ways that you are able to
see God in your lives. Then discuss ways in which you can help,
show kindness and love others when they might find it difficult to
have faith.
Prayer:
Thank You, Father, for Your bountiful blessings of Goodness. Open
our hearts to receive your Goodness in these days of Lent as we
reflect on the life of Your Son, Jesus. Thank You for this greatest
gift of Goodness to us. Bless us to pass it on to others in our
lives. Keep us alert to the many opportunities we have to share
your Goodness to others. In Your Holy name, we pray. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
Exodus 4:10-12
(NIV) – “Moses said to the Lord, ‘Pardon your servant, Lord. I have
never been eloquent, neither in the past nor since you have spoken
to your servant. I am slow of speech and tongue.’ The Lord said to
him, ‘Who gave human beings their mouths? Who makes them deaf or
mute? Who gives them sight or makes them blind? Is it not I, the
Lord? Now go; I will help you speak and will teach you what to
say.’”
Revelation
21:5-6 (NIV) – “He who was seated on the throne said, ‘I am
making everything new!’ Then he said, ‘Write this down, for these
words are trustworthy and true.’ He said to me: ‘It is done. I am
the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty
I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of
life.’”
Message:
Comparisons, competition, and calls for censorship abound. We are
bombarded by messages through communication media no other era
before us has known. This messaging can be confusing, nonsensical,
and overwhelming. The communication onslaught can result in
crippling stress and anxiety and cause us to shut down altogether.
Many times the overload of conflicting messages has caused me to
shut down.
At these times, when conflicting
messaging overwhelms me, I am overcome with questions. Which is
God’s Will? Is it the call of Christ for re-evaluation, or is it
temptation causing me to question my faith? I feel frozen and lose
all confidence in myself. The Bible, which at one time was a
textbook in our universities, has so many answers and wisdom.
Therefore, I turn to my Bible and listen to what God is saying.
These unlikely verses from Moses and
John provide renewed confidence to continue forward, listening as
best I can through the “sounding brass” and “clanging cymbals” of
the world’s messaging. I am listening for my Savior, for my God. I
hear Him through these verses.
Prayer:
Father God, as we pour our hearts out to You in praise, in sorrow,
in profound need, or joyous thanksgiving, thank You for hearing and
answering our prayers. We know that You are here listening, caring,
soothing, and healing even when we are overwhelmed by the noise of
the world. Thank You for Your still small voice, in Jesus’ name we
pray. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
James 5:14-15
(NIV) - "Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of
the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of
the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick
person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned,
they will be forgiven."
Acts 4:20 (NIV) - "As for us, we cannot help
speaking about what we have seen and heard."
Message:
In early 2022,
our son, Grant, had a full healing of his body after 5 years of
debilitating pain. No doctors were able to help. He was
unable to play with his children, exercise at the gym other than
approved rehab exercises.
His wife, Carrie, encouraged him to pray.
Even though he didn't want to bother God, he prayed without the
complete expectation that God would heal him. It wasn't that
he thought God couldn't heal him. It was more that He
wouldn't.
They were surrounded by wonderful friends who
encouraged my son to seek the Lord. Some of these friends
collectively prayed for him after a night of worship. Women,
children, and men laid hands on his back and anointed him with oil
in the Lord's name.
The next day he woke up and thought, "I think I am
healed". Instead of going to the gym to do rehab exercises, he
jumped on the basketball court and played pain free. Then he
went for a run.
My son feels like the blind man who cannot help
but share his story. He has continued to be pain free, even on
a ten-day mission trip to India in September 2022. Praise God!
"This is not a recipe for prayer success.
Why was I healed and not my best friend with cancer? I don't
know, but I thank God that He does know and that He is sovereign
over everything. Our next step of obedience is to share this
story," my son says. "The true healing is what Jesus has done
in my heart by releasing me from the chains of sin.".
My son's prayer is that we re-read the Gospels
with fresh eyes and really come to know Jesus.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father,
thank You for this story. Thank You that You continue to heal
in the world today. Thank You for paying the price for our
sins on the cross. We praise and glorify Your name in all the
earth. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
Psalm 19:14 (KJV)
- "May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be
pleasing in your sight, O Lord, my Strength and my Redeemer."
Proverbs 18:21 (NKJV) - "Death and life are in the
power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit."
James 3:8-10 (NKJV) - "But no man can tame the
tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who
have been made in the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth
proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought
not to be so."
Message:
While at the
computer I made the mistake of reading an article in addition to the
Twitter comments. It hurt my eyes to read the words and see
the verbal explosion of hateful, emotional, negative verbal venting.
Who would allow themselves to think such thoughts?
Write such words? Publish such words?
Where is the governor of the mind? Where is
the boundary for what you will or will not utter? Who do you
become when things don't go your way?
The blessing of adulthood is the opportunity to
choose. During this unbridled time in history where no
boundaries prevail, let us choose to look to our God and our Savior
Jesus Christ. What would Jesus say? What boundary line
would Jesus draw for us to choose?
Prayer:
Holy Father, bridal
our tongues for Your great glory. Give us Your grace,
compassion, and wisdom to choose our words to show Your love, to
provide healing, to provide peace. Create in us a heart so
close to Yours that our words reflect You in every aspect of our
lives. Thank You for Your Son, Jesus, for it is in His name we
pray. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
John 14:16-17a (NIV) – “And I will ask the Father, and he will give
you another Counselor, to be with you forever – the Spirit of Truth”
John
14:26a
(KJV) – “But the Comforter, which is the
Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you
all things,”
John 14:1
(NIV) – “Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust
also in me.”
John
16:7b-c (KJV) – “It is expedient for you that I go away: for if
I go not away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I
depart, I will send him unto you.”
Message:
When Jesus was preparing to leave this earth, He comforted His
disciples. John 14:1 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in
God; trust also in me.” He said trust Him. The separation would be
temporary. He told them He was going to be with the Father and that
even then He could hear their prayers.
The Greek word for “another” means: “another that is just like the
first." So, Jesus is saying that the one who is coming is just like
Him! He adds that it is for your good that I am going away. “Unless
I go away, the Counselor will not come to you. But if I go, I will
send him to you.
For if I go not
away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I depart, I will
send him unto you.” (John 16:7b-c).
My son, Grant, gave me the book “Forgotten God: Reversing Our Tragic
Neglect of the Holy Spirit”1 by Francis Chan. I am so grateful. The
book challenged me to re-read the Book of John, especially Chapters
14-16. My goal was to just receive it as if for the first time.
There was a deeper, new, and more personal meaning for me. I
visualized myself at the table as if I was present and hearing the
words of Jesus. How illuminating! There are no words to express the
wonder and awe of hearing His words as if for the first time!
The Holy Spirit is here to comfort us, to counsel us just as Jesus
would if He was physically next to me! So much joy fills my heart! A flood of gratitude overcomes me to hear His Promise and all of
what He said!
Prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father. You overwhelm me. I am in awe of Your promises
and words in the Bible to Comfort and Counsel me. Thank You. Thank
for Your Holy Spirit of Truth. Comfort me. Counsel me to live my
life as a testimony of the gift of Your Holy Spirit of Truth! Let my
belief and gratitude for Your Holy Spirit be reflected in my
choices, words, relationships, and deeds today. In Jesus' name. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
1 Corinthians 13:13 (NIV) – “And now these three remain: faith,
hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
Matthew 22:37-40 (NIV) – “Jesus
replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all
your soul and with all your mind’. This is the first and greatest
commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as
yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two
commandments.”
1 John 4:9-10 (NIV)
– “This
is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only
Son into the world that we might live through him.
This is love: not that we loved God, but that he
loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”
1 John 4:19 (NIV) – “We love because
he first loved us.”
Message:
Without love there is no true faith. Without love there is no
genuine hope. Is it really this simple? Why is it so easy to
stray? Why is it so easy to be caught up into anything else and
everything else?
Jesus taught the greatest two
commandments and both include love and that He came not to replace
the law, but to fulfill the law as “all the law and the prophets hang
on these two commandments.”
Advent is the perfect reminder that
the unseen power of love can open hearts, tear down walls of
suspicion and hate, and build bridges to the soul. Love shields us
from the arrows of hate and the spears of anger. Love shines in our
eyes, unwrinkles our brows, and brings a smile to our lips. Love
attracts us to knowledge and wisdom. Love warms our hearts for
sharing and caring.
Advent calls us to meditation and
prayer. Meditation and prayer prepares us for the greatest gift of
love to us all, Jesus.
Let us greet this day and every day
with love in our hearts.
Prayer:
Thank You, Father, for Your unfailing Love. Thank You that we can
reach out to You for Your Love at any time and at any place. Help
us to navigate through the world’s distracting noise and seduction
to the transforming power of Your Love. Help us to reflect back
Your Love to others in all we say, think, and do. In Your Holy name
we pray. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scripture:
Psalm 84:1-2 (NIV) – “How lovely is your dwelling place, Lord
Almighty! My soul yearns, even faints, for the courts of the Lord;
my heart and my flesh cry out for the living God.”
Message:
This psalm was written by the sons of Korah. Korah led a rebellion
against Moses and Aaron. The punishment to Korah's sons was
banishment from the temple. This psalm touches me deeply as I hear
the cry of their souls longing to be with God in His Holy Temple.
Being in church on
Sunday, and more is a habit thankfully ingrained in me by my parents.
Sunday, morning as a family we were in the pew. When my father read
Evening Prayer in the chapel at All Saint's Episcopal Church, he
would take me with him to praise and pray. Whenever we went on
vacation as a family, we found a church for Sunday, morning. Even in
the Bahamas, we were in an Episcopal church on Sunday, hearing the
Word of God with His followers and refreshing our souls.
It became a habit for
my entire life. During summer camp, college, New York City, San
Francisco, and everywhere God placed me, this habit found a court of the
Lord. This habit for God's court even during our COVID 19
quarantine, placed me at our outdoor sanctuary by the lake for a
fresh encounter with God. I am so grateful for His courts.
Prayer:
Thank You, Father, for Your dwelling place, Your temple, Your
sanctuary. Thank You that You meet us there and that Your Presence
renews us and refreshes us! Thank You for the blessing of Your
courts. Thank You for sending Your son, Jesus, to wash away our
every sin. Thank You for loving us so much that Your son has
prepared a place for us with You in Your heavenly courts. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
James 4:8 (ESV) - "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.
Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you
double-minded."
James 4:8 (NLT) - "Come close to God, and God will come close to
you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for
your loyalty is divided between God and the world."
Message:
Lent is a time to draw closer to God and to deepen our personal
relationship with Jesus through prayer, meditation, and worship.
Worship has become a vital part of my relationship with God and
Jesus. Expressing authentically through words, lyrics, and
non-verbal expressions pouring out my heart to God has transformed
me.
Not just prayer, not just meditation, but for me the act
of worship has brought me closer to Jesus and to His transforming
touch. It starts with prayer and meditation. It becomes worship,
deep honoring, extravagant respect, adoration, and reverence.
Drawing closer to God has helped me to understand why some Psalm
begins as loud lamentations and anger; later transformed into words
of extravagant devotion, admiration, and praise.
Lyrics to
songs echo in my mind with deeper meaning and understanding such as:
"We bring the sacrifice of praise into the house of the Lord"
by Kirk Dearman1; "No matter how I feel or what has
happened, I choose to praise Him with my whole heart, mind, body,
and soul!" and "I will sing of my Redeemer and His wondrous love for
me!" by Philip Paul Bliss2.
Our Lenten season is
our great opportunity to come before His Presence with praise,
thanksgiving, and our authentic desire to do His Will in our lives.
In doing so, we draw closer to Him, and He draws close to us.
Prayer:
Father, in this moment we come before You praising You for this day
and are grateful to You, our God. We ask that You take us
wholly into Your service today. We place all the hours of this
day at Your disposal. Keep us ready to do exactly as You
appoint. Cleanse our hands, purify our hearts, and guide our
tongues for Your service today. We are so grateful that we can
come before You right now and know that You hear us. We pray
in the precious name of Your Son, Jesus. Amen.
Bette Hillman
1.
“We bring the sacrifice of praise” by Kirk Dearman and Morris
Chapman 1999 © Copyright. Permission not required for use of Title
only.
2.
“I will sing of my Redeemer” by Philip Paul Bliss 1876.
Public Domain.
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Scripture:
John 10:10b (NIV) – “I have come that they may have life, and have
it to the full.”
Message:
Why did Jesus come? John answers in 10:10b above. In addition to
the greatest commandment to love God and our neighbor as ourselves,
what other instruction did he provide?
“Therefore be as shrewd as snakes
and as innocent as doves.” (Matthew 10:16b NIV), or as Willard puts
it: “Have the practical good sense of a snake, and be un-devious or
innocent as doves.” (Willard Swartley)
Spiritual care opens the door for
others to know Jesus and love him more deeply.
Spiritual care means having the
timing of a snake. When God gives the opportunity to witness, or to
pray with someone, or to invite someone to grow in their
relationship with God, you are required to act confidently and
decisively.
Spiritual care also requires the
gentleness of a dove. A dove is incapable of intrigue. There is
nothing indirect about this harmless creature. The importance
spiritual teaching places on “no guile” is great. One of the traits
of a child, greatest in the kingdom, is its inability to mislead.
More than anything else, people
need to hear and believe that God loves them. The delicately
balance the combination of snake and dove to provide assertive,
timely, tender spiritual care.
Prayer:
Gracious Lord Jesus, you gave your disciples important instructions
when you sent them to serve and care for people. Show us. Help us
to be gentle and genuine. Reach into our hearts now with just the
right word of instruction, hope or encouragement that we will know
and love you more deeply. Pour out your spirit upon us that we may
become channels of your love and mercy to others. Guide us to help
others see their need for you. Give us opportunities to bring
others to you that they may know the joy of your healing and the
peace of your wholeness. For it is in your name, Jesus, we pray.
Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scripture:
Luke 11: 9-10 (NIV) – “So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to
you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to
you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and
to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.”
Message:
My father prayed about everything. He meditated with my mother
every morning for twenty minutes or more. He asked God for help
with all of his challenges.
One day he shared with us four
children that he was having a terrible time keeping the raccoons out
of the orange trees. They were eating, or tearing away all of the
oranges.
There is no doubt in my mind that
he had put forth a lot of effort to get rid of the raccoons.
Nothing was working. He got so frustrated that he said his prayer
was; “God, these are Your orange trees and I know these are Your
raccoons. But if you don't keep Your raccoons out of Your orange
trees, I am going to have to shoot them!” My father said that he
never had a problem with the raccoons after that prayer.
Prayer:
Father, thank You for answered prayers. Thank You that we can come
to You about everything. Thank You for listening to our prayers and
for being an active part of our lives every moment we ask. Help us
to turn to You always and to recognize that You hear us. Help us to
have faith that You will answer our prayers. In Jesus name, we
pray. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scripture:
Isaiah 46:3-4 (NIV) – “Listen to
me, you descendants of Jacob, all the remnant of the people of
Israel, you whom I have upheld since your birth, and have
carried since you were born. Even to your old age and gray hairs I
am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will
carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.”
Message:
The losses related to aging are very challenging for me. My
expectations of what my life shoulda, coulda been overwhelm me
often.
In addition
to the scripture above from Isaiah, the poem below gives me comfort
and sets my feet on solid ground.
“I was
regretting the past
And fearing the future.
Suddenly my Lord was speaking”
‘My name is I
AM.’ He paused.
I waited. He continued.
‘When you live in the past
With its mistakes and regrets,
It is hard. I am not there.
My name is not I WAS.’
‘When you
live in the future,
With its problems and fears,
It is hard. I am not there.
My name is not I WILL BE.’
When you
live in the moment,
It is not hard. I am here.
My name is I AM.’”
Helen
Mallicoat (1982)
Prayer:
Thank you, Gracious God, for Your Presence. Thank You for the
wisdom and experience we gain as we grow older, for the
relationships that deepen and grow richer over the years, for the
memories we cherish, and for the way You increase our faith over the
years. Thank You for the privilege of growing older, especially
since as we grow older we get to know You better. Thank You that
even death will be a doorway to being closer to You. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Wednesday,
October 21, 2020
-
"The Connection" Series
Assertiveness
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Scripture:
Ephesians 4:15 (NIV) – "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will
grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the
head, that is, Christ."
Message:
The Gospel of Mark 9:22-24 (NIV) tells a story about Jesus right
after the transfiguration. Jesus and the disciples with him come
down to find the other disciples engaged in an argument. A man
explains that he has brought his son to be rid of his demon, and the
disciples were not able to do it. The father of the boy indicates
his fear when he says to Jesus, "But if you can do anything, take
pity on us and help us."
“‘If you
can?’ said Jesus. ‘Everything is possible for one who believes.’”
“Immediately
the boy's father exclaimed, ‘I do believe; help me overcome my
unbelief!’”
Both Jesus
and the boy's father are speaking the truth in love. They show by
example the power of assertive relating. The father could have
covered up his blunder by backtracking, “Oh sir, of course I believe
You can cure my boy. I'm sorry.” If he had been caught in the pull
of this lie, he might never have received Jesus' redemptive power. But the father's love for his son delivered him to speak the truth. I believe! Help my unbelief.
Jesus was the
perfect example of assertiveness. We can grow closer to Him and
grow up to be more like Him when we relate with other people more
assertively.
Assertiveness
is a positive, constructive way of relating to other people that
respects their needs, wants, and rights as well as one's own needs,
wants, and rights.
Assertiveness
is not a cookie cutter approach to relating. It calls for the
highest creativity you can find in yourself. It calls on you to be
you – genuine, thoughtful, and full of care.
Prayer:
Lord Jesus, thank You for Your mercy and Your love. Thank You for
Your example and help us to model our lives after Yours. Give us
opportunities to respect, honor, and care for others so that they
can realize how much You value them, too, and how they can turn to
You for all they need. Help us to have the courage and compassion
we need to relate assertively with others. Thank You for hearing
our prayer. Amen.
Bette Hillman
(first published in 2016)
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Scriptures:
1 John
4:9-10, 19 (CSB) - "God's love was revealed
among us in this way. God sent His One and
Only Son into the world so that we might live
through Him. Love consists in this: not
that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent
His Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our
sins. We love because He first loved us."
John 14:21
(CSB) – “And the one who loves Me will be loved
by My Father. I also will love him and reveal
Myself to him.”
Message:
Each year
these verses mean something more to me.
Each year Lent brings me to a renewed pursuit
for a relationship with Him. Yet God is
the One who brings us into a relationship with
Him so that out of that relationship we have
everything we could possibly need. You and I
do not initiate a love relationship with God.
He initiated a relationship with you and me long
before our lives began on earth. God
demonstrated His Love on the cross of Christ
Jesus.
So everything about the Lenten season is coming to
a new understanding of what His loving me means
and what my loving Him means. Therefore,
experiencing God's love depends upon my loving
Him and deepening my personal relationship with
Christ Jesus.
It is a new awakening.
Because God loves you and me, He wants us to
love Him in return.
Prayer:
Father, thank
You for first loving me. Open my eyes and
ears to a greater understanding of our loving
relationship. If it is Your will to reveal
Yourself to me, help me to embrace Your
revelations and implement them in a way which
would be pleasing to You. Help me to know
Your love and to pass it on. In Jesus'
name. Amen.
Bette Hillman
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Scriptures:
John 8:7 - "When they kept on questioning him, he
straightened up and said to them, 'Let any one of you who is without
sin be the first to throw a stone at her.'"
Matthew
22:37-40 (KJV) – “Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord
thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy
mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is
like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these
two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”
Psalm
19:14 (NKJV) – “Let
the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart Be acceptable
in Your sight, O Lord, my strength and my Redeemer.”
Message:
My mother made a lifetime choice to not speak
ill of others. My father always said, “People are doing the best
they can at the time. It may be a poor best in our eyes, but it is
the best they can do with what is happening at the moment.” Jesus
said, “Let any one of you
who is without sin
be the first to
throw a
first stone at her.”
and “Love thy neighbor as thyself.”
The first time I gave up gossiping for Lent, it
created a problem. A flood of scathing thoughts and comments
poured forth on Sundays (when we took a break from Lenten fasting)
that I held back during the week. It was time to ask God to
cleanse and purify the well from which the gossip came.
The other challenge to giving up gossip would come
when someone made a disparaging remark about another. "I gave
up gossiping for Lent" created an awkward moment, although it did
stop the negative flow.
So, what is my choice now when the door for gossip
opens? I say something like, "Let's pray for this person /
this situation." I ask God to help me turn topics for gossip
into prayer requests and prayer projects.
Will you join me?
Prayer: May the words of my mouth and the
meditations of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my
Strength and my Redeemer. Amen
Bette Hillman
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Scripture:
John 13:17 (NIV)
-
"Now that you know these things, you
will be blessed if you do them."
Message:
The words “comfort”
and its derivatives are
found
120 times
in the
NKJV
Bible. The words “be comforting” are
found in the NKJV Bible only once
in 2 Samuel 14:17, where
the words “be comforting”
pertain to the Lord taking care of all things.
We find the word “comfort” and its
derivatives three times in Isaiah 66:13 where God is portrayed at
the Israel’s comforting mother; and six times in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
under “Comfort in Suffering”.
Advent is a season
when we prepare to celebrate the birth of
our Savior Jesus. It can be a
comforting season, since we have
celebrated it many times. The familiar traditions can
feel comforting
to us.
But
remember that
all the
main characters in the
Christmas story were stretched out of their comfort zones. Mary and
Joseph traveled to Bethlehem late in her pregnancy. The
shepherds left
their sheep
on the hillside
to find the Christ
child. The wise men followed a star
over months and possibly years.
And God left the comforts of heaven to be born
as a child for us. All were stretched out
of their
ordinary comforts, to have
their blessings
occur.
Is it possible that,
in this
season,
we too must stretch out of our own comfort
zones? Is
it possible that we must
reach, stretch,
and seek
new ways
to serve others? Is
the blessing of
this Advent
season, the
fresh encounter with
Christ, coming through our
stretching, reaching, and seeking
Him beyond what we find
comforting?
Prayer:
Most Gracious Heavenly Father, we long
for You and for a
fresh encounter with
You. Thank You for
the blessings of
this Advent season and
for the blessing of Your Son, Jesus. Guide us where You
would have us stretch out
of our comfort zone so that we may give and receive blessings.
Amen.
Bette
Hillman
(Editor’s
note: Author has given approval for edits to meet the original
intent of the Devotional by using the NKJV of the Bible.)
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Scriptures:
Psalm 47:8
(NIV) – “God reigns
over the nations;
God is seated on
his holy
throne.”
Psalm 18:2
(NIV) –
“The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer;
my God is my rock,
in whom
I take refuge, my
shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.”
Isaiah 6:1
(NKJV) – “In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord sitting on a
throne, high and lifted up, and the train of His robe filled the
temple.”
1 Peter 5:1-2
(NKJV) – “The elders who are among you I exhort, I who am a fellow elder and
a witness of the sufferings of Christ, and also a partaker of the glory that
will be revealed: Shepherd the flock of God which is among you, serving as
overseers, not by compulsion but willingly, not for dishonest gain but
eagerly;”
Psalm 18:31
(NIV) – “For
who is God besides the Lord? And who is the Rock except our God?”
Message:
Effective leadership fascinates me. When
thinking of leadership,
“up” is
good and “down” is not. We want to be “over” others, the “top dog,”
and at the “pinnacle” of power. We don’t think
of seeking a place “under” others, “low man on the totem pole,”
or “at
the bottom rung.”
Scripture uses
spatial metaphors, too. “God
reigns over
the nations”
(Psalm 47:1a).
God’s throne is “high and lifted
up” (Isaiah 6:1b).
Elders are “overseers” (1
Peter 5:2a).
The up / down language makes sense. To lead, you need a view of
the landscape. However, being a great leader also means equipping
others from the bottom up, being a foundation, a buttress, and a platform to
provide support.
God is not only over us, but sets Himself under us. He is our
Rock, giving us a sure place on which to stand: “And who is the Rock except
our God?” (Psalm
18:31b).
Therefore, effective leadership is top-down and bottom-up. Overseeing and
providing foundation go together.
God is our
true leader. He is our
heavenly Father,
and our
Rock.
In all aspects of our lives, He
leads us and is our foundation
and buttress. He reigns over our lives and provides the platform. He is our
vision and our path to eternal life.
Prayer:
Thank You, Father God, for
Your leadership. Thank You
for Your example of
true leadership through the birth and life of Your Son. Guide us
through this Advent season and set us on
a new foundation through
the rebirth of Jesus in our hearts.
Amen.
Bette
Hillman
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Scripture:
John 2:1-11 - "Jesus Has the Power to Change Things."
Message:
Johnny Carson interviewed an eight-year-old boy on The Tonight Show
who had rescued two friends from a coal mine outside his home in
West Virginia. As Johnny questioned the boy, it became apparent to
him and the audience that the young man was a Christian. Johnny
asked him if he attended Sunday, school . When the boy said he did,
Johnny asked, "What are you learning in Sunday, school?" "Last week
our lesson was about when Jesus went to a wedding and turned water
into wine." The audience roared, but Johnny tried to keep a
straight face. Then he said, "And what did you learn from that
story?" The boy squirmed in his chair. It was obvious that he
hadn't thought about this. But then he lifted up his face and said,
"If you're going to have a wedding, make sure you invite Jesus!" Jesus has the Power to change things. Just imagine what He can
change in your life if you issue the invitation. When we invite
Jesus into every aspect of our lives, He can change past pain into
present comfort; old wounds into fresh wisdom; stale, old thoughts
into new, creative ideas to solve problems; and a cold silence into
a warm conversation. No matter where you are in your life, Jesus is
waiting for your invitation. Let Jesus into every part of your
life.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, You have healed us, forgiven us, and given us new
life in your Son, Jesus. Thank You for loving us so. Thank You for
the courage to invite Jesus into every aspect of our lives and to
have faith in You totally. Amen.
Bette
Hillman
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Scripture:
Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV) – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,
peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness,
and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”
Message:
When I
am troubled, I seek peace and turn to words that will offer me “Rest
in the Lord”. When the fighting and finger pointing begin, I trust
the words of Galatians 5:22-23 and I turn to these words written by
Alan Redpath (British evangelist, pastor and author) in Victorious
Christian Living: Studies in the Book of Joshua (1955): “There is
nothing – no circumstance, no trouble, no testing – that can ever
touch me until, first of all it has gone past God and past Christ,
right through to me. If it has come that far, it has come with a
great purpose, which I may not understand at the moment. But as I
refuse to become panicky, as I lift up my eyes to Him and accept it
as coming from the throne of God for some great purpose of blessing
to my own heart, no sorrow will disturb me, no trial will ever
disarm me, no circumstance will cause me to fret – for I shall rest
in the joy of what my Lord is! That is the rest of victory!”
Prayer:
Thank You Lord, that I may find peace and victory through Your Word. Thank You that there are those much wiser than I, whose words help
me to rest in You. Amen.
Bette
Hillman
(first published in 2014)
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